Dat's it. Can't stand it bila org tegur kite, kite pon gigih pegi stalk segala gmba, status, history bagai to search for a point to fire them back. Lephass tu ha berjela komen kau kak berserta pendahuluan, isi2 standard cambridge serta penutup like a boss utk fire bdk yg niat murni dia nk nasihat kite tu.
3 things here:
1: 'sblum tegur aku, tgk diri kau dulu dah soleh/solehah ke belum' satu statement yg x berpendidikan.
Tak perlu tunggu jd pak ustad atau maksum mcm nabi utk tegur org. Kalau nk tggu jd malaikat, xpernah bt slh, mmg xde lah org nk tegur menegur dlm dunia ni, ha dgn awk, sy, kite sume meh kite lingkup menuju neraka reramai ye, does that sounds fun? Sbb kite sbg manusia yg slalu prasan bagus, agk susah nk muhasabah diri, sbb tu Allah hadirkn org sekeliling utk sdrkn. Clear?
2: org yg nk menegur, mohon tahu erti tegur dan aibkan. Kalau btul niat nk tegur, nabi ajar tegur in private. Bukannya awk pegi update status lpstu tag dia, atau tegur terang2 in public,komen kt ig dia, gmba dia pstu ckp 'sy tegur ikhlas' to let the world knows what a good muslim u r. It makes u feel good n superior rite? Kalau jd kt kite pon, kite reti plak malu kak. Sblum kite berhijrah pon, kite sama je teruk mcm dia kn. Bersyukur la Allah dh bg hidayah tp jgn pndang rendah kat org yg sdg merangkak kt bwh tu, yg mne tau tgh struggle bersungguh hati nk lwn nafsu, cari redha Allah. Who knows nnti Allah angkat darjat dia lg tinggi dr kite, ha melopong la tgk satg.
3: org yg kne tegur, kalau sentap n x leh trima, dear u have some ego issue. Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. pon pnh kne tegur dgn Tuhan, who do u think u r smpai xleh trima teguran? Let it sink okay? Walaupun teguran tu kdg2 xbtul, it's okay, myb tu cara Allah nk guriskan ego kite yg tinggi melangit tu.
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